All for show(n)(inf):doing something outwardly to trick the world into thinking they are something that they are not. Synonyms: Facade, Pretentious. E.g:His donation of millions to charity na all for show. Him no get shingbain for hand. Dear Diary(In Jenifa's voice), so I was gisting with a friend who, having gone through this blog, had a few words for me. She couldn't believe that I would use words to my own disadvantage. "How will you be telling everyone that you're single? Don't you feel ashamed?" At first, I was confused. Ashamed that what exactly? That I'm single or what? And then she went on an elaborate lecture on how instead of telling everyone that I am not in a relationship, I should talk about how sweet the relationship I'm currently in, is... How I'm so sure it's headed for the alter. Before I could interject, she said I don't even have to be in a relationship before I can do that. "It's the in-thing now&quo
The hardest part about being single at a time when marriage has become the new trend among your peers, is the wait. Waiting can be fun for some people. They get to experiment. They go partying, drinking, and all the other things that the children of the world do. Lol. Waiting is revealing for other people. They experience the whole 'getting to know themselves' process, learning to enjoy their own company and what not. Waiting in my own view can be likened to waiting for a bike to take you home in the rain at night. I can relate both because the latter recently happened to me and boy, it was hellish. Figuratively. Whichever category you belong to while waiting, there's always that temptation to settle. You could be doing it for yourself because you're just tired of being by yourself or it could be the overwhelming pressure of the family. Either way, that urge to just start walking the cold lonely road home can seem like the best thing to do or (plot twist) a dark mys